I’m frequently approached with the question “Kim, I really want a man in my life and I just don’t understand why I’m not meeting anyone!?”Attracting a man is not rocket science. Attracting the RIGHT one however can be a little trickier. Most women I coach are dating at a later stage in life – often after long marriages that kept them off the dating scene.If you’re in this demographic, re-entering the dating arena may seem like a daunting task. All kinds of issues can come up around age, body image and availability of good men ? something the younger set won’t necessarily be concerned about in the same way.The advantage you have over most 20 somethings is your level of confidence. Life experience has helped you get clear about who you are and hone in on exactly what you want ? including where you will no longer compromise in relationship w moseley womens rugby ith a man.The challenge for women in late 30′s and 40′s lies in your ability to receive. You’ve spent most of your adult life getting educated and the rest working on your career. It’s wonderful you’ve achieved success in your life, but I find many women have become like men in the sense you’re continually producing everything yourself, leaving little room for a man to help.Love is an inside job. Manifesting what you want starts with the inner part of you first. It’s not about getting your body, hair, makeup and online profile perfect. It’s about creating an ideal environment for a man to come in.When I work with my private clients, this is our whole focus from the start. I developed this method of working from the inside out because so many women who approach me have preconceived notions about men and don’t believe their ideal man exists.